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“Impact of Mothers’ Work on the Wellbeing of their Children”

Showkat Ahmad Dar,* Sayed Iram Tabish,* Sumia Majeed Badam *

showkatahmad@cukashmir.ac.in

*Research Scholars, Department of Education, Central University of Kashmir (India)

Abstract

Mothers’ instructions reflect a very strong influence on attitudes, abilities and behaviour of

their children. Mothers give her children love, affection and care since birth. Child-care has

become a major issue in most of the countries of the world. It is a universal truth that

children require the love of mother the most. It has been proved through experiments and

researches that a major part of children’s’ cognitive, affective and psychomotor growth takes

place at an early age below three years. There are many researches which have proved that

absence of parents’ attention at an early age is very harmful. So working mothers, on the one

hand, can be positive role models for their children, and, of course, the income they earn can

improve their children’s lives in many ways. On the other hand, work can impair the

developing bond between mothers and young children, especially when the mothers work

long hours or evening and night shifts. The stress that they bring home from their working

places can sidetrack from their parenting skills, destabilize the atmosphere in the home, and

thereby introduce stress into children’s lives. When parents involve themselves in the

education process of their children the outcome is always as a positive and encouraging one.

The basic objective of the paper is to understand the concept of Working Mothers and to

examine its character and impact on the wellbeing of their children. The present paper

focuses on the needs, consequences and influences of the working parents within family

environment and also outline and discuss the working Mothers in the premises of a family

life, through the perspective of its impact on the overall child raising up and education,

which is crucial to his/her proper formation of children’s personality. For the present paper

secondary data was used.

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Keywords: Working Mothers, Impact, Children’s Well being,

1. Introduction

Mothers’ instructions reflect a very strong influence on attitudes, abilities and

behaviour of their children. Mothers give her children love, affection and care since birth.

Child-care has become a major issue in most of the countries of the world. The role of the

mother as an educator represents a crucial resource to the development of the individual

identity. Always in accordance to the biological as well as physiological relation of mother to

the child represents the first and reasonable part or segment of the child’s development. This

for the reason that mother assures child’s life, as she is the one who brings the child in this

world, and further on she raises them from being little towards reaching a total independency

in mature life. The mother’s function in this regard, has a very important role which as such

may be divided into two parts or directions: The first one is related to the child’s defence,

while the other one to the child’s overall development. Mother’s protection as a function

embeds several types of actions or types of functions. The first type is connected to the

physical protection of the child, which means that the child must be provided healthcare and

hygienic conditions, so that he/she could have a healthy life in a warm home environment in

every sense of the word, including here the ambiance where the child lives, which must be

well enlighten, a healthy place which offers the child to be showered, feed up and taken care

in general. The second type is the Psychological protection, which can be reflected through

the child’s emotional security and psychological protection, especially in moments when the

child feels it when the mother is next to him or her. Another group of activities in this regard,

are the maternal functions regarding the child’s development involving here the physical

development, the intellectual development as well as the emotional development of the child.

(Grancic, Radovan, 2006).Each child which grows up and is educated in the presence of

mother, for sure is expected to reach an appropriate physical, psychological as well as social

development. In this regard, these children have a much better appearance, they look happy

and they enjoy the childhood in general. They are communicative and as such they are ready

to cooperate. For this reason, mother’s love and care to the child, is full and well completed,

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and as such is often accepted by other members of the very family. This type of cultivated

love and affection can be qualified as a key condition for an appropriate development of the

children in a given family. The children experience the physical as well as psychological

effects of the mother, and as such they are taken as model which influences their further

development during their emotional stage of development of their moral values as whole.

This element of the so called child’s identification, the child embeds it in his/her personality

for years on and on, throughout his/her total lifespan. It is planted in their character as well as

temperament, and as such it is reflected through his/ her attitudes and thoughts in interaction

or behaviour comportment with the society in general(james,1982). However, depending on

the economic, social as well as emotional limitations, mothers, nowadays have a variety of

opportunities to be able to reach or make real their mother’s role, which helps the child’s

overall development and enables mothers to enjoy the fact of being mother.

2. Impact of Mothers’ Work

Parenting is a very big responsibly and the parent child interaction plays a vital role in the

development of child. The behaviour, mannerism, ethics and level of confidence in a child is

the total reflection of the style of parenting of a child. In other words, proper parenting

prepares a child to face the word boldly and accept the challenges and opportunities in his

life. It is a universal truth that children require the love of mother the most. It has been proved

through experiments and researches that a major part of children’s cognitive, affective and

psychomotor growth takes place at an early age. There are many researches which have

proved that absence of parents’ attention at an early age is very harmful. So working mothers,

on the one hand, can be positive role models for their children, and, of course, the income

they earn can improve their children’s lives in many ways. On the other hand, work can

impair the developing bond between mothers and young children, especially when the

mothers work long hours or evening and night shifts. The stress that they bring home from

their working places can sidetrack from their parenting skills, destabilize the atmosphere in

the home, and thereby introduce stress into children’s lives. When parents involve themselves

in the education process of their children the outcome is always as a positive and encouraging

one. (Ardita, 2016). It is usually believed that employment of a mother has certain effect on

the overall growth and development of children. The first five years are very crucial for the

cognitive, affective and psychomotor development of children. The teenage period of